3 Reasons Why Grace Must Have Balance

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Over the past several years ago I have walked through a season of great brokenness.

Upon the first blow my response was resentment. I grew bitter and judgmental. Pride distorted my vision and to myself I appeared more holy, more righteous, and more acceptable to God.

Self-righteousness does that. It distorts your vision until in your own eyes you are the only right one.

Then in 2012 God took me on a journey through 1 Corinthians 13, showing me how this passage speaks to the church, about how our relationship with the body of Christ needs to be.

Suddenly the true grace of Jesus Christ became more real to me than ever before.

There are 3 things that happen when grace is taught in an out-of-balance way. Here is why grace must have balance in our churches and in our teaching.

I had been focused on God’s holiness and righteousness to a point that couldn’t see His grace and love!

Suddenly I was seeing Jesus in a whole new way!

Now my relationship with Him took on a whole new dimension.

But in the joy of my new discovery of grace, My heart wanted to go to a new extreme.

I fought hard to keep the pendulum from swinging too far in the other direction of hyper-grace, which isn’t really grace at all.

This is important, because there is a great tendency in the body of Christ today to label certain actions grace, when they are not grace while labeling the antithesis judgement when it is not judgement.

It is as if there are two camps that are mutually exclusive and divided by an abyss.

But as wise believers who walk in the fear of the Lord, we must find a balance where we walk in true grace that is not afraid to call sin what it is, but still extends loving arms to the world and a brother in sin; that sends out a clarion call for holiness in the church while extending grace to a weak member of the body; that refuses to allow society to determine what is right or wrong and yet sees the world around them with the same compassion Jesus had.

Men and women of God who will weep over the lost, broken and fallen with true Agape love!

There are 3 reasons why grace must have balance

1. Without balance it becomes permissive. When grace is not balanced by the holiness and righteousness of God, it grows permissive. Permissiveness is not the nature of God. Nowhere is God’s character do we see that God permits sin. Ever.

In fact, we see just the opposite. The Bible tells us to be holy as He is holy. It says, “Be ye perfect even as your Father in heaven is perfect.”

The requirement for heaven is perfection.

And all of this would be discouraging for us, if not impossible, if it were not for grace,

Grace enables to do what we could not otherwise do!

Grace forgave our sins, when the penalty should have been death. But it didn’t stop there, it is in abundant measure to us each day so that we have the power to reject sin and embrace holy living.

Grace doesn’t say, “To err is human. So don’t worry about it.”

It says, “To err is human, but you have Almighty God dwelling in you, so you can rise above sin and live holy!”

That is grace!!!

2. Without balance it negates Christ’s sacrifice. When grace is not balanced by righteousness and holiness, and permits a measure of sin and insults the sacrifice of Jesus Christ.

If God is prepared to look the other way when we sin, why did He reject His Son on the cross?

Furthermore, why did Jesus die at all?

If some sin is permitted under grace, who decides which sin is permitted and which sin isn’t, and on what verses do we base this assumption?

And if this is true, that some sin is permitted, or able to be swept under the rug of grace, then what do we do about heaven? Because the Bible teaches that perfection is the requirement.

Grace, true grace, enables us to walk in the power that Christ purchased for us when He descended into hell as a victorious warrior and ripped the keys of death, hell and the grave from Satan’s slimy talons!

“If the spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he who raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by His Spirit that dwelleth in you.”

This is grace! God bestowing upon us the power to live a new life – resurrection life!

3. Without balance it keeps people enslaved to sin. When grace is permissive and assumes that God will let certain sins slide, it keeps believers enslaved to sin!

Instead of teaching them the truth that Jesus died to free them from sin, we bind them with chains of deception!

Grace, true grace, breaks these chains with the truth that we have been  given the power to live free from sin!

That is what Romans 6-8 is all about.

Paul gave us the key to unlock the chains of sin and walk in the freedom of Jesus’ resurrection power!

Yes, he admitted to his own struggle with sin, but he didn’t leave it there! He didn’t leave us hopeless!

He reminded us that while we live here on earth in an earthly body that is at odds with a spirit that is born again and set free, by the grace of God we now have the power to choose to walk in freedom!!

That is the message of grace!

Not easy believism.

Not permissiveness.

But the power and authority to reject sin and live in freedom Jesus’ purchased on the cross!

Grace is so much more that undeserved favor, it is more than just forgiveness of sin. This, without the final part is like eating the appetizer and leaving out the main dish!

Grace is also the ability to stand in the power and authority given to us by the blood of Jesus Christ against the power of sin. And when we do sin, inadvertently and unintentionally, w know that we already have an advocate with the Father Jesus Christ. So we don’t have to live under the condemnation of that sin, but have free and full forgiveness right now.


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  1. I love those three chapters of Romans. Paul is so clear that a baptized believer is DEAD to sin, without condemnation and raised just like Jesus Christ to new life. Since God owed us none of that, it is the most amazing kind of grace!

  2. Hi Rosilind,
    I’m so glad I clicked on this post from #FaithFilledFriday! I really like how you broke thie necessity of balance in grace. Balance is so necessary and so difficult to maintain. Thank you for giving me so many good points to chew on!
    Blessings and smiles,

    1. Yes, it is difficult to maintain at times, especially when so many have grown so permissive and tolerant toward sin. But a good understanding of what grace means AFTER salvation helps keep it in balance.

  3. Beautifully put! Love the demonstration of the balancing act of grace. So grateful to serve a Savior that always has the scales perfectly balanced. We always have a model worth aspiring to…

    Have a great week!

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