Do you feel like you’ve lost your joy?
Do you feel like you’re flailing in the wind as life yanks you along at warp speed, like you’ve lost all control?
Do you feel a frustration and emptiness inside that you can’t seem to define?
So much of the disappointment and depression, loss of joy and control we experience as believers boils down to one simple truth.
We don’t recognize our identity in Christ.
I know that a lot is said today about who we are in Christ and recognizing our identity in Him, but I believe that many don’t know how to identify with Christ. They don’t know how to discover who they are in Him.
It is so easy for Christians today to suffer an identity crisis!
We’re told how we should look, how much we should weigh, what we should wear, what kind of hair and makeup we should have.
The media has established an ideal look for men and women and if you don’t fit that ideal you’re marginalized.
Women should be 5’7″, a size 2, have thigh gap, wear skinny jeans, and have long straight hair.
If you fit that ideal, you’re accepted.
But if you’re 5’2″, are a size 14 or more, find that yoga pants tell too much truth about your cellulite, and even your mom-do isn’t attractive anymore, you’re invisible and unacceptable.
But how does our identity in Christ square up with this ideal?
Media in general plays a central role in how we feel about ourselves!
Including social media.
Studies have shown time and again that while social media has done good things, such as connecting long-lost friends and loved ones, too much of it leaves us feeling depressed and empty.
Partly because it is so one-dimensional.
We see what our friends let us see.
We see a filtered view of their life, but we see our own life in 3-D….in all of it’s messy glory and then compare our messy 3-D image with their filtered, edited, one-dimensional image.
Just like the ideal that Hollywood has created!
Starved, operated on, drugged, filtered, edited, and photshopped!
If we’re not careful, we start to allow things other than God’s Word to define us:
- Social Media
- Movies and TV
And we begin to define ourselves by our career, ethnicity, economic class, or our appearance.
Even worse, our past mistakes, disappointments, hurts, rejection, and abandonment begin to define us. The fact that we were raped, had an abortion, grew up in a single-parent home, or grew up in foster care or an orphanage; we are an abuse victim, used drugs, were an alcoholic, or were homeless for a season…
these things and more begin to form an identity for us until all of life is lived from that prism.
3 Things the Bible Says About Our Identity in Christ
1. God has no ideal.
“For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother’s womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well.My frame was not hidden from You, When I was made in secret, And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them.” Psalm 139:13-16
The whole idea that there is an ideal physical image is not only a lie, it is a strategy of Satan to keep us in a cycle of striving for what God never intended and depressed because we cannot attain it.
God created you the way you are for a purpose and a part of recognizing your identity in Him is learning to love and accept yourself as He created you.
2. Your past is an event, not your identity.
“Therefore, from now on, we regard no one according to the flesh. Even though we have known Christ according to the flesh, yet now we know Him thus no longer. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation. Now then, we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were pleading through us: we implore you on Christ’s behalf, be reconciled to God.” 2 Corinthians 5:16-20
When Christ forgives our sin, a miraculous thing takes place.
There is a theological term for it: Justification. Justification is a 5-syllable word that literally means just as if you’ve never sinned.
That is what Jesus’ work on the cross did for us. It completely did away with our past so that it is like it never happened. And this work of grace needs to be extended to those who hurt us as well!
Just as Christ forgave us to such a degree, so His grace can enable us to forgive others in this same way.
3. Your ethnicity, economic status and career describe your birth and situation, they don’t define you.
“For you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus. For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” Galatians 3:26-28
Now that we are in Christ, our heritage can no longer be an excuse for certain behaviors.
Sure, you may be of Irish descent, but that doesn’t mean that you have no control over your temper.
You are now a daughter of God! That is now your heritage, and the fruit of the Spirit should be growing in your life!
Maybe you live on food stamps right now, that doesn’t have to define you because you are a daughter of the King of all kings who owns the cattle on a thousand hills!
You are the richest woman in the world! Rich in all things that money cannot buy.
Your career is something you do, its not who you are.
Who you are is an ambassador of Christ, regardless of whether you clean toilets or have a corner office. He sent you here to do one thing alone, extend the kingdom of God on earth.
Plunder hell to populate heaven!
Now do you see why recognizing our identity in Christ is so vital?
Our identity, whether properly recognized as being in Christ or not, clearly becomes the prism through which we live out our everyday life.
And if we are to live a life that glorifies Christ and fulfills the purpose for which He created us, we must recognize and embrace our identity in Jesus Christ.
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